Tuesday, November 13, 2018

FRANK Has Left The Building

My jaw dropped. I looked up to where he always sat, stoic, strong, and ready to listen. Frank’s constant presence was a reminder of our need to take a deep breath and remain silent. Frank never spoke, but he said a lot. I remember once speaking to one of the administrators and we were trying to make a decision. Turning to Frank was the logical course of action, he was always frank and spoke frankly on every topic, if you were ready to listen. So what happened to Frank? Someone new and someone old, and an institution of SJM was gone.

If you don’t know who Frank is, join the club. What I refer to as frank is an old wooden foot rest with the name Frank carved in the top. The foot rest was found underneath a pew and placed on top of the administrwtor’s desk. Frank was friendly, real, accountable, near, and knowledgeable. Not everyone appreciated his ever present gaze, they would ask why he was there? When explained, they politely acknowledged his keen insight and went on to another topic. So, when a new administrator came on staff, someone who did not truly know Frank, her gift of cleaning out paced Frank’s usefulness. Frank was removed from his place of prominence and came to rest in a corner of the workroom. From there, our faithful maintenance personnel, saw Frank’s presence coming to an end, and out into the dumpster he went. No fanfare, no solemn moment, just a heave and a hoe.

So what can be learned from Frank? 1. Silence is energizing. 2. Stopping and taking a deep breath is always good before speaking. 3. Words are over rated, when reflection is what is needed. 4. Faithfulness means being ignored st times. And finally, 5. “Don’t ask for whom the dumpster calls, it calls for you.” Frank you will be missed.

But hey, look, there’s BoB!




Tuesday, November 6, 2018

Whispers, Lies, and Forgotten Rainbows


What is it about the human condition that wants to believe the worst in people? Experience, maybe. We trust people and they fail us, sometimes it is small, other times it is dramatic. We shut down, pull back and start to believe the whisper in our ear that reinforces the age old lie, “we (they) are not enough,” we (they) are not good enough.” If we are not careful the darkness overwhelms us and it’s cold becomes a way of  life. Listening to the radio this morning the first song up reminded me again that the only voices I can believe are, first and foremost, Jesus, then those who love Him with their whole hearts and seek His glory above all else. Enjoy.

I keep fighting voices in my mind that say I’m not enough
Every single lie that tells me I will never measure up
Am I more than just the sum of every high and every low?
Remind me once again just who I am, because I need to know (ooh oh)
You say I am loved when I can’t feel a thing


You say I am strong when I think I am weak
You say I am held when I am falling short
When I don’t belong, oh You say that I am Yours
And I believe (I), oh I believe (I)
What You say of me (I)
I believe
The only thing that matters now is everything You think of me
In You I find my worth, in You I find my identity, (ooh oh)
You say I am loved when I can’t feel a thing
You say I am strong when I think I am weak
And You say I am held when I am falling short
When I don’t belong, oh You say that I am Yours
And I believe (I), oh I believe (I)
What You say of me (I)
Oh, I believe
Taking all I have and now I'm laying it at Your feet
You have every failure God, and You'll have every victory, (ooh oh)
You say I am loved when I can’t feel a thing
You say I am strong when I think I am weak
You say I am held when I am falling short
When I don’t belong, oh You say that I am Yours
And I believe (I), oh I believe (I)
What You say of me (I)
I believe
Oh I believe (I), yes I believe (I)
What You say of me (I)
Oh I believe (oh)
I’m Just Saying....
Songwriters: Paul Mabury / Lauren Ashley Daigle / Jason Ingram
You Say lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC

Saturday, November 3, 2018

The Value Of Nothing

Have you ever just craved nothing; no interruptions, no noise, no hassles, no relational problems, no responsibilities. There are times I can sit on the front porch, stare out across the field and enjoy, well, nothing. There are all kinds of nothings, and if life is long enough I hope to enjoy more of them.

Nothing, sometimes, even tastes good. I was walking through the market looking for Apple juice (healthy) and came upon a ben with different Hostess products (unhealthy). There on top lay the most wonderful of all treats, Twinkie’s! You might think this silly, but I grew up on twinkies, back before I turned 30 and could eat anything without gaining weight. Twinkies have nothing of virtue in them accept pure deliciousness. What more could one ask for? “Do you want the twinkies in a bage,” The ckerk asked. Are you joking, put such Heavenly delicacies in a bag where they can be crushed? Would you throw a carton of eggs in the bottom and cast can goods on top? How ridiculous! “No, thank you,” I answered. Twinkies are full of nothing, and yet they can bring such joy.

I began wondering about all the nothings in the Bible. Here are a few:
  1. Nothing can stop God from blessing us, Numbers 22:11
  2. Nothing can keep God from providing for our needs, Deut 8:8-10
  3. Nothing can hinder God from saving, 1 Sam. 14:6
  4. Nothing is impossible when God’s involved, Mart. 17:20,21
  5. Nothing is impossible with God, Luke 1:27. 
  6. Nothing should be expected in return, when doing good, Luke 6:35 
  7. Nothing will hurt us when God sends us out. Luke 10:19
  8. Nothing good dwells in my flesh, Romans 7:18
  9. Nothing is lacking when we all share,  2 Cor. 8:15
  10. Nothing should be done with selfish ambition and deceit. Phil 2:3
  11. Nothing was brought into this world, and we will take nothing out, 1 Tim. 6:7 
  12. Nothing can separate us from the love of God In Christ,
When I think about nothing the passage that comes to mind is, “What has been is what will be, and what has been done is what will be done, and there is nothing new under the sun” (Ecc. 1:9). From man’s perspective this can seem true. We come up with what we think are new ideas, but they are old ideas repackaged. Not so with God, “Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert” (Isaiah 43:19). Jesus said he was ushering in a new Kingdom, His blood a new covenant, and with that, he would make all things new. Each morning, before the day’s nothings begin, God has provided mercies, new exciting and free. When asked, “what’s going on?” A bleiver should never say “nothing,” unless he is talking about the nothings of God. For God is always at work that we might want and do His good will, and (like John Piper says) we are most satisfied when God is most glorified. That’s nothing to sneeze at. I’m just saying...

Life Is Short And Death Is Sure



The orange leaves rustle in the wind; unfixed they flutter to the ground. Yellow, red, orange, green and the artist splashes color against His canvas until the masterpiece is finished.  But, then again, it is never finished as Spring bursts forth life from the dreary cold of winter. Summer’s lush greens fight through a mixture of wet and dry until the earth, beaten and bruised, once again, stumbles into Fall.  Silently the leaves fall to the ground like the tears of a battered spouse.

“For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of him who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be set free from its bondage to corruption and obtain the freedom of the glory of the children of God. For we know that the whole creation has been groaning together in the pains of childbirth until now. And not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies” (Romans 8:20-22).

Rebecca took this picture. The vivid color is awe inspiring. But the colors reveal a process of life and death. Well, the tree doesn’t really die, it pulls back its nutrients in order to preserve its life during the cold winter months. There are two things in this picture. First, to survive in a hostile environment, you need to fall back to your core. We each have a set of core values, some written, most not. Our core values drive us into the ground or they lift us up to life. My core values come from the Bible: 1. To have a heart and passion for God and his glory, 2. To have a heart of prayer, 3. To have a heart for the Word of God, 4. To have a heart for service, 5. To have a heart for the lost. 6. To have a heart of Gratitude, 7. To have a heart of contentment, 8. To have a heart of integrity, 9. To have a heart for the family of God. These nine core values are the target, I don’t accomplish them all the time, but the goal remains true in the midst of my groaning.

The second point is that no matter how much we try and cheat the pain of a fallen world, two things remain true, “life is shorter than we realize, and death comes to all.” This sounds drab and tiring, but it’s not. If not for the groaning there would be no rejoicing, if not for the usual there wouldn’t be the fantastic. In the midst of our groaning we wait eagerly for our adoption and our redemption (not of our souls, but of our bodies). When Jesus returns we will see glory for what it truly is, for we will see Jesus face to face. Until then, we need to be about our Father’s business of calling the world to follow Jesus, and helping them grow into his image. We are part of the tapestry the artist is painting. 

So, we groan and wait eagerly, waiting for our adoption and redemption, not in sorrow but in victory, not in despair but in hope. “No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord,” (Romans 8:37-39). I’m just saying...

Friday, November 2, 2018

Running With The Big Dogs and Falling Behind


9 REASONS IT’S HARD TO ATTEND A CHURCH ONCE YOU’VE BEEN INVOLVED IN LEADING ONE
An interesting article to reflect on. I know my own issues. Tell me what you think of this article.


If you’ve struggled with this feeling before, ask yourself whether any of these 9 reasons might be part of your struggle:

1. YOUR IDENTITY IS TIED TO WHAT YOU DO, NOT WHO YOU ARE

So who are you really? A preacher? A musician? A worship leader? A student director? An elders? An usher? A group leader? A staff member?

No you’re not.

You’re a child of God redeemed by a Saviour who came for you.

So many of us define who we are by what we do. I struggle against this every day.

Before you dismiss this, do this simple test that Tim Keller offers.

“If work [or ministry] is your idol, if you are successful it goes to your head, if you are a failure it goes to your heart.”

Boom. Maybe your identity is more tied up in what you do than you think.

2. YOU LIKE BEING THE CENTER OF ATTENTION

As Andy Stanley says, anyone who’s ever strapped on a microphone is a little like Lady Gaga; we all live for the applause. Come to think of us, many of us don’t need a mic for that.

Could it be that you’ve grown accustomed to being the center of attention, no matter how small your audience might be?

Often my decision that something doesn’t fit ‘me’ is far more a statement about me than it is about whatever I’m uncomfortable with.

3. YOU’VE SEEN HOW THE SAUSAGE IS MADE AND HAVE LOST YOUR APPETITE

Yep. Church is messy, flawed, disappointing and at times deeply hurtful.

Largely because people are messy, flawed, disappointing and at times deeply hurtful. And we live on this side of heaven.

Hurt, unresolved, breeds cynicism. And there are so many cynical former church attenders who simply haven’t addressed their unresolved issues.

Part of maturity involves realizing that I contribute to messy sausage making. I am part of the problem. And so is almost every leader who has abandoned church.

Jesus never said we would be known for our perfection. But he did say we would be known by our love.

Love owns my share. Love forgives. Love says I’m sorry. Love reconciles. Love works toward a better tomorrow.

Love sees who you really are and stays anyway.

4. YOU’VE BECOME MORE OF A CRITIC THAN A WORSHIPPER

This one’s hard. Once you’ve been on the inside, you listen ‘at’ a sermon as much as you listen ‘to’ a message.

You ask “What’s he doing here? Why did he make that transition this way? What’s up with his body language?”

Musicians critique the music. Guest services people criticize greeters. Graphic design people laugh at other designs.

And lead pastors critique everything.

What’s missing in this picture?

Humility. Submission. Grace. That’s all.

5. YOU THINK YOU’RE BETTER OR SMARTER THAN THE PEOPLE WHO MERELY ATTEND

This one’s ugly.

I don’t know what else to say about it except stop it. Really.

Okay one more thing. So maybe you are smart. Or more successful. Got that.

If you think you’re too important to help someone, stop fooling yourself. You’re not that important.

6. SOMEWHERE IN THE PROCESS, YOUR PERSONAL WALK WITH GOD TANKED

Leadership is best when it springs from the overflow of our personal walk with God.

There are many ways unusual church leader struggle with God (I wrote about 5 of them here), but just because you lost your closeness to God while leading in a church doesn’t mean church is bad.

He loves you, and He loves the church in all of its weakness.

 7. YOU’VE FORGOTTEN YOU’RE A FOLLOWER, NOT JUST A LEADER

Originally all of us got into ministry after we decided to become followers of Jesus. That following should never stop.

The best leaders are actually the best followers.

A leader who can only lead but not follow is actually not a great leader. And certainly not a godly leader.

8. YOU’RE NEGLECTING THE FACT THAT YOU STILL HAVE A ROLE TO PLAY

I know it’s cliche, but the goal is not to attend church or go to church. You are the church.

But, for reasons outlined here, I think the church is so much stronger when we are together, not when we are apart.

While we can all use some rehab in a back row of a church somewhere from season to season, ultimately, every follower of Christ has a role to play in the local church. Even if it’s not your favourite role or a role you’re used to.

Being involved is one of the best ways to stay engaged, even if it’s not what you used to do or want to do.

9. ‘WHY’ HAS DIED ON THE ALTAR OF ‘WHAT’ AND ‘HOW’

Church leadership is a lot of ‘what’ and ‘how’. I find I have to remind myself daily of the ‘why’ of church.

Why?

  • Because God is good.
  • Because he loves us.
  • Because Jesus gave his life for a world he desperately loves.
  • Because our cities are full of people who don’t know the love of Christ.
  • Because my life is not my own.
  • Because the church was Jesus’ idea.
  • Because grace ultimately makes all things new.

So does that help? I realize these reasons will not address every issue, and that some will flail against any organized church no matter what is said.

But so many leave unnecessarily. Maybe you’re one of them. If any of these reasons are true, what will you do about them?

I know that working through them has kept my passion and hope for the local church strong, even if it flickers in the wind some days

Things That Go Bump In The Night

The darkness was thick with dread, and around each corner lay an evil spirit. One must beware of “things that go bump in the night.” Halloween, or as Hulu put it “Huluween,” has come and gone for another year. Little children dressing up as favorite characters (or rather their parents’), going from house to house, extorting from their poor neighbors, candy on penalty of tricks. Sounds all so goulash to me. No one came to our house, though Rebecca had prepared just in case. Living right outside of town, on a dead end (pun not intended), was a prohibiting factor. 

The darkness is frieghtening, and the rush of adrenaline from childhood stories or trickster friends can be exhilarating. We both loathe and relish those moments when someone jumps out of the corner and scares us, as long as it is not meant for harm. What I think is the greater deception than Halloween, is the the whole quote of “things that go bump in the night.

This expression comes from The Cornish or West Country Litany : ‘From ghoulies and ghosties and long-leggety beasties and things that go bump in the night, Good Lord deliver us!’ Like the little boy who preferred his mother over prayer to shield him against things that go bump in the night, I too, prefer "God with the skin on.”

Do we prefer the comfort of the flesh over the comfort of God? Where do we go, and what do we prefer, when things go bump in the night. It doesn’t have to be the creatures under our bed that dredges up fear. It could be the fear of a boss, or the IRS, or losing a loved one that cause the hair on the back of our neck to stand on end and tingle. Like the little boy we would prefer God with skin. And there again our gracious God provides in two ways.

First, the gospel of John said, “in the beginning was the word, and the word was with God, and the word was God... and the word became flesh and dwelt among us.” God became flesh to identify with us, and to deal with the evil that brings fear into our lives, sin and darkness. Jesus is the light of the world and darkness flees in his presence. But in the flesh Jesus could only be in one place at a time, so he returned to the father and sent the Holy Spirit. Now God dwells in every believer, to be comforted and to give comfort.

Secondly, God has provided us skin to give comfort and hope to the lost and hurting of the world. As his body, we bring the name of Jesus to bear against the fear mongers, the haters, the contentious among us. It is God’s love that drives out fear, because in his love he has conquered sin and death. 

“From ghoulies and ghosties and long-leggety beasties and things that go bump in the night, Good Lord thank you for delivering us!” I’m Just Saying... 

Thursday, November 1, 2018

Bright Eyed And Bushy Tail

I saw the most amazing sight this morning, looking out the back sliding glass doors, across the harvested corn and out of the woods came a doe and a buck. The buck was young and his antlers small, (Two points?). They were magnificent creatures. But they were not what was amazing. It was what followed. Two 🐇, two 🐈, two 🐕, 🐎, 🐄, and the line crossed the road, up the hill and out of sight. There was something familiar with the sight. Then it dawned on me. With all the rain, there must be a man named Noah, somewhere to be found. He couldn’t be far off, and the boat(ark) would have to be enormous, and it was. Enormous couldn’t describe it, awe inspiring is better. I ran to the front of the house. Went outside and looked, and looked, for the Ark. 

The patter of the rain on the roof, the smell of fresh and crisp air, the perfectly formed drops splashed, laughing at the thought of remaining in the sky. Did I tell you it was cold? It reminds me of another rainy day that ought just wouldn’t quite. After 40 days (eons) and nights the water covered all the earth, killing every living land creature there was. Only Noah’s cargo survived. Jesus referenced the deluge.

“For as in those days before the flood they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, until the day when Noah entered the ark, and they were unaware until the flood came and swept them all away,” (Matthew 24:32).

The sight of the ark and the animals brought such joy that they were distracted  from the rain. Just like the majesty of the deer distracted me from the rain. Life was good, sin was rampant, and the consequences were a marginal. That is why the following verses are sobering,

“So will be the coming of the Son of Man...Therefore you also must be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect” (Matthew 24).

If this is what will happen, how should thoughtful people think and behave? If all I accomplish is to awaken you from the deep sleep of the flesh, I will have accomplished much...just saying